Is your partner a Gemini? If so, then this article is meant for you. I’ll help you to find a way how to get along with your Gemini partner, direct your attention to his important character traits and needs the stars have given him. The Zodiac sign in our birth card affects our character traits in a way and that’s why we can take these traits into account to make our relationships more harmonious, beautiful and better. Understanding what you should pay attention to and what he was given with birth.
When you’ve allowed a Gemini to your heart, then love him fully and learn to exists with him in harmony. Gemini is the one who injects excitement and spice into your life, makes you do weird things and experience something completely extraordinary. To enjoy all of this, know how to accept him.
1. ACCEPT HIS UNPREDICTABLE CHARACTER
With Gemini, you should always know that there are two different sides in him which he will open in accordance with his mood and environment. Therefore, firstly, you have to learn to know his two different sides and also to accept all of this. It would be difficult when you can’t accept that your partner can be many partners at once. But, when you like versatility then a Gemini is meant for you. Geminis are all different people, with their unique fates, life path number and many other astrological-numerological indicators. Therefore, your Gemini is unique. Get to know his double personality. Follow him, analyse which patterns keep repeating. Through that, you’ll know who your love is. Repetitive behaviour or attitude can keep repeating itself, but, at different times. You need to learn patience and see good in it, not hardships. It’s your win when you can experience more with him when with a single person.
2. SOMETIMES, JUST LET HIM BE “RIGHT”
Geminis like to be more special, different and original than the people around him. They need that very special Me-personality and profile. Gemini may not see that in themselves, that it’s important for them. But, it is very important, I found this out many years ago when I analysed zodiac signs. By knowing this, remember, that your darling subconsciously wants to be original and unique. Of course, he is, but remember, this is very important for him, something others have to notice also and acknowledge. This is something also you should do.
Your Gemini lover could sometimes have a completely different opinion than you or the rest of the people he talks to. He needs to express himself, say his opinion out and not have a word fight over it. He needs his opinion to be accepted. Even when you’re not seeing the same picture as he is, then it’s more reasonable to be okay and accept his thoughts. There is no point in fighting with a Gemini, nothing good will come out of it, this could take too great breaks and all of this for the smallest of things. Simply accept that his opinion is important to him and when he thinks of something then he really doesn’t want you to suppress it. It would be reasonable to say that you respect his opinion, you believe there is a point in it, but you simply see this from a different point of view. Learn tolerant and decent behaviour from him. Sometimes he can make it hard, but at the end of the day, he will be your darling you love.
3. SHARE YOUR FEELINGS OPENLY
For Gemini, it’s super important to talk about his feelings and this is the most honest and open way possible. Your darling Gemini enjoys that you open your heart fully without leaving anything unmentioned. It’s important for him to talk about his feelings, sharing them and expressing feelings with words is the highest honour in sharing the love. I remind you that Gemini still is an air-element sign. This means he loves with his ears. As verbal skills are his strong feature, this is also the channel he excepts full commitment to. When you feel like you want to tell him how beautiful, pretty, strong or important he is, tell him. You can caress him with gifts, but deep down he expects more words and expressing feelings from you. Melt the ice between you and him by telling how you feel about him. Through all of that, make your relationship stronger and more intense.
4. ACCEPT HIS SELF-ADMIRING SIDE, HE IS A HERO
Gemini has two sides in his soul, i.e. he symbolises a double personality. This not only means that you have to accept his broad character, but you also have to accept that he is a true self-admirer. The need to love himself, accept and get along well with himself is with him since birth. This is a goal to achieve and that’s quite visible when you’re in a relationship with him.
Your lovable Gemini can praise himself when he feels he has done something wonderful. Let this achievement be something he cooked, built or a genius idea. He takes self-praising and being okay with himself naturally. Something others could learn from them. This is not a bad character trait at all, when there are reasonable amounts of it, like everything in this life has to be balanced. You, as his partner, have to accept this side in him.
Of course, Gemini communicates with himself, sees his own beauty and charm. He is an expert!
You could sometimes feel that you’re the third love in his life. First comes himself, then his achievements and then you. When you have kids, then you could be the fourth. This simply happens. But this does not mean that he doesn’t love you. They are never with anyone they don’t love. When you’re by his side, then for a reason. His versatility can keep the family together on many different levels, he is not a one-way lover. He loves himself, home, you, family, friends, his job and many more.
5. LET HIM TALK, TALK AND TALK
As mentioned above, then one of his strongest sides is his verbal skills and, as an air-element sign, talking is very important for him. When you want to have a good relationship with him, then, please, let him talk. It would be wonderful when you would rather listen than be the dominant or leading side in the relationship. This would make your relationship easier. But, when you like to be in the spotlight, then this could make things difficult. Did you know that they like to lead the conversation? It’s very important for him to do this.
They need to talk about everything they know, find out, what they think about all of this, who said what and is everything right in his opinion. Gemini can not say what they think about things. When he can’t talk to you, he’ll become nervous and that’s why you can unexpectedly end up fighting with him. The more you allow him to talk, be the ear for him, the better he will feel himself and the less personal problems there will be in your relationship.
6. THE NEED TO BE ALONE AND WITH OTHERS
It’s important for their balance and harmony to be alone when they need it. Sometimes they simply have to do something on their own, spend time with themselves. He needs this to think in peace and quiet, analyse and make important decisions. Subconsciously he’ll know when he needs to act on his own. When you see that he has planned to do something alone, then let him do it. He’ll be back as a better person with a positive mood and optimistic energy.
In addition, there are moments where he wants to spend time with others. When he has planned a night with his friends, but you’re not on the list, then you may feel like an outsider, but don’t take this personally. He simply also needs to exchange energies with other people. He needs new knowledge and refreshen himself. Later, he’ll come back home to you and share everything. You won’t miss any of it.
But, when he wants one-on-one time with you, then he will let you know this. When you want an idyllic relationship with a Gemini, then you have to know how to be in a relationship with him unconditionally. Who loves him with conditions, can’t create a relationship with him and exist together in harmony.
But, when you’ve allowed a Gemini into your heart, then know that you first went to him to learn what unconditional love is. They won’t allow being limited, caged nor dominated over. When you try this, then it could end up being chaos and a tornado. Be smart with him, understand his character and accept it. There is one very good thing with all of this – he lets you be free, he will give you space!
Aquamarine is one of his love crystals. Aquamarine increases his feelings for his partner, helps to make the connection between the two of you deeper. Aquamarine teaches Gemini about the value of his love and directs him to express his feelings even better.
Bring White Howlite and Blue Quartz into the home you share with him. These crystals are very important for every Gemini. They will bring peace when it's needed, balance and harmonize your lover. These crystals will help you to get the best of him and keep the home atmosphere wonderful.
You can find the Gemini crystal set, which brings prosperity, positivity, optimism, protection and love to this zodiac sign, HERE.
Your lover Gemini not only likes to be loved, but he also likes to hear it. This is his favourite song he can hear again and again without getting bored!